Posted by Noa on January 6, 2003, at 14:23:37
In reply to Re: Therapist not responding, posted by pinkeye on January 6, 2003, at 13:28:14
I really think you should at least consult another mental health professional about this before you decide. It sounds to me like you do need to work this out in therapy, but have to face the reality that the old therapist isn't going to be the one to help you with it.
My gut feeling is that he made a big error in keeping correspondence with you and not taking into account the feelings that you could have for him and how he would handle that. And maybe you are right--that he got scared and stopped writing. It is also possible that some other reason, totally unrelated to you is why he stopped (like when Nikki's computer was broken and we were all worried about her, for example). but I think that given how it is affecting your marriage, it might be best to see another professional, even if just for short term to consult about how to get past this lousy episode with the old one.
Take care.
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