Posted by Jost on September 19, 2006, at 23:47:58
In reply to Re: no where left to turn, posted by brokenbaby on September 19, 2006, at 20:25:38
Brokenbaby, I'm glad I came over here and that we started talking.
I really admire your being a caregiver. It's a hard job, and takes great dedication. It also can take its toll on you. And sometimes not appreciated-- at least with money--although families and those you've cared for probably have a very different point of view. My family has had some times when caregivers really made such a difference for us.
I'm artist, although I had originally studied to teach English lit. My Significant Other has a job that pays pretty well, so we get along. (I'm a woman, although my name sounds like a man's name, I just wanted you not to wonder later.)
About six or seven years ago, I went through an extremely hard time. I've gotten to a much better, more hopeful place, even though for a long time, I didn't think I would get through. So I know it can happen.
That's one reason it's important to take care of yourself, even though it's hard. When you're going through these things, it can seem as though it won't end. But it can get better.
I'm glad you went out. Sometimes just going out, seeing faces, maybe having a coffee somewhere, or buying a magazine-- can take your mind off things for a while.
I'd like to hear more about you and also your children. How old is your youngest? and your others? Are they in school? doing okay?
I was wondering, are you seeing anyone to talk about whatever's going on now? do you have any medications that have helped? I don't mean to intrude, but those have helped me at times. Not 100%, but enough to make a difference.Let's keep in touch. I'll see you tomorrow.
Jost
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