Posted by lynn971 on November 6, 2005, at 23:09:40
In reply to 41 years of Abuse, loss, grief, /PLEASE Read?!, posted by allisonross on November 1, 2005, at 15:22:12
I am so glad that you are not a part of that church anymore.
It sounds like the pastor is more concerned about legalistic issues than about your well being
A pastor is suppose to be a sheppard to his flock. He is suppose to actually care about the individuals in the congregation. My pastor would have been more concerned about the abuse that you have been through.
I am concerned about your abusive ex living in the same house as you because he is abusive. Get him out!!!! YOu do not owe him anything. You are not responsible for his happiness.
My advice to you is to just love Jesus. Dont worry about what the other people feel is right or wrong. (I need to take my own advice)
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