Posted by Dr. Bob on January 5, 2014, at 13:48:01
In reply to *SHAME* alex*SHAME*, posted by HomelyCygnet on January 5, 2014, at 9:46:46
> Truly, sincerely, there is no better example of what civility actually is, than to protect individuals from the throwing of sh*t upon them.
>
> HomelyCygnetMy view is that civility is to choose one or more of:
> > 1. not sling it back
> > 2. shield themselves
> > 3. help others shield themselves
> > 4. notify me if they think I should respond
> > 5. express how they feel
> > 6. reflect on times they've slung it themselves, or wanted to
> > 7. support the slingerBoth #3 and #4 could be considered ways of protecting others. For example:
> I agree with the content of Twinleaf's post. I also feel it was expressed in a reasonably respectful manner. I strongly disagree with your blocking her.
>
> emmeThanks for expressing how you feel (#5) and doing it in a civil way (#1).
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> > Every day, people forgo treatment for reasons that don't have anything to do with Lou. How might they be influenced to undergo treatment instead?
>
> how try to convince them to not believe all they read half of what they see.
>
> Phillipa> Hmm. Well, looking for a positive and constructive posture to take is a start. I'm going to try something new. We'll see.
>
> - ScottGreat, then we'll both be trying something new. :-)
Bob
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