Posted by alexandra_k on January 1, 2014, at 15:13:04
In reply to Re: Labeling theory Dr Psycho's Bob-babble, posted by HomelyCygnet on January 1, 2014, at 11:50:12
> I feel about babblers and Dr Psycho like Alex felt about her former housemates.
if that is true then why are you here?
after i appreciated that i couldn't do my thing living with my former housemates i tried to get the hell out of there with every fibre of my being. it is true that i was stuck there for ages... because i didn't have anywhere else to go that i could afford... that was any better...
is it like that for you? are you still here because while you really don't feel that anybody here understands who you are or what you need or what makes you tick or anything... that there isn't anyplace else in the world that can offer anything more for you? is that why you are here?
in my case... funds were limiting. i knew what i needed (to live by myself as self contained as possible while being surrounded by graduate students / professors / university support people).
do you know what sort of environment may be a better fit for you? do you have something... like how pc has her women's support group where she feels... understood. where (if i understand her correctly) she can relax and be herself and they all... are in synch, somehow. they don't need to explain or justify endlessly... they can just sort of be... and understand... and feel understood.
you don't have anyplace like that?
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