Posted by glydin50 on November 9, 2010, at 15:58:28
In reply to Re: My theory on why I love Dr. Bob.. » Glydin50, posted by Deneb on November 9, 2010, at 13:54:09
> Why is it that people have a problem with my "I love Dr. Bob" posts and not with all the "I hate Dr. Bob" posts?
>~~~ I see a problem w/ anyone posting posts declaring hate towards Dr. Bob.
> I don't think my loving Dr. Bob is unhealthy at all. I just talked to pdoc about this today and she thinks it is much better than hating Dr. Bob.
>
> She thinks I love Dr. Bob because loving him is safe. She thinks Dr. Bob is safe because Dr. Bob is unavailable.~~~ It is good, imo, you explore this w/ your pdoc. It's up to no one here to truly judge if your "loving Bob" is healthy or not. My issue has been the public posting of the posts as I do not appreciate how they fit into the following: 1) Dr. Bob - the BOARD'S Dr. Bob not any imaginary emigma Dr. Bob - is the owner and Adm. of the site, not a poster. These boards state they are for mutual support and education primarily by posters. 2) The Adm Board is designed to address the operation of this site.
This only appears "personal" because the behavior is limited to one poster..... that does make it a tippy toe situation that seems a bit unfair. One poster can express at will and have their posts always accepted and the other - even if civil - can't? *If* I see an issue that I believe effects the board, I hope, if I am civil, I have the same priledge to express how I feel also. Maybe.... that is a NEED of mine as important as the needs of any other.
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