Posted by obsidian on May 16, 2010, at 12:21:41
In reply to Re: posters in the alphabet, posted by Deneb on May 16, 2010, at 2:05:51
> Ooooh, I wanna play too! I'll give you my thoughts on it...
>
> > Hi, everyone,
> >
> > OK, I've tried to be more systematic and listed how each hypothetical type sees me, what they expect me to do, and how they feel toward me. Can you fill in the blanks?
> >
> > Also, this is clearly a work in progress. Does each type still make sense? Would you add or change any aspects of any of them?
> >
> > Bob
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster X (includes A)
> >
> > sees me as:
> > insensitive, provocative, egocentric, tyrannical, cruel, mocking, hateful, murderous
> >
> > expects me to:
> > hurt them, be angry with them, ignore them
> >
> > feels:
> > ?
>
> Maybe poster X feels hurt, I dunno.
maybe indignant>
>
> > --
> >
> > Poster P (includes W)
> >
> > sees me as:
> > inferior, incompetent, unprofessional, unreasonable
>
> > expects me to:
> > act according to their criteria
> >
> > feels:
> > supercilious, superior, skeptical, disapproving, disappointed, angry, contemptuous, enraged
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster Y
> >
> > sees me as:
> > detached, busy, bored, preoccupied
> >
> > expects me to:
ignore, forget
> > ?
> >
> > feels:
> > indifferent
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster D
> >
> > sees me as:
> > witty, interested, caring, loving, amused
>
> I'd like to add to that. generous, happy, bright, intelligent, hard-working, fun, interesting
>
> >
> > expects me to:
have a sense of humor, care, be curious
>
> I think poster D expects you to post once in a while, be authoritative, sensitive and fair.
>
> >
> > feels:
> > appreciative
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster Z
> >
> > sees me as:
> > ideal
>
> >
> > expects me to:
> > not see them as special
> >
> > feels:
> > attracted
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster B
> >
> > sees me as:
> > having ulterior motives
> >
> > expects me to:
> > use them
> >
> > feels:
> > suspicious
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster C
> >
> > sees me as:
> > interested, excited, hungry
> >
> > expects me to:
> > use them for your own benefit
> >
> > feels:
> > used, objectified,
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster Q
> >
> > sees me as:
> > hungry
> >
> > expects me to:
> > treat them as an equal, share inside information with them and not other posters
> >
> > feels:
> > special, equal
> >
> > --
> >
> > Poster 2
> >
> > sees me as:
> > idiosyncratic, part of life
> >
> > expects me to:
> > disappoint them, go your own way
> >
> > feels:
> > detached
>
>
poster:obsidian
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