Posted by alexandra_k on April 22, 2009, at 14:12:11
In reply to Re: and of course there are more..., posted by alexandra_k on April 22, 2009, at 4:31:23
I'm sorry for all the swearing and stuff. Sorry to any posters who I may have offended. And sorry to Bob too, yeah, because one simply shouldn't speak to people in that way.
Yeah. Hurt. I don't think it will ever go away. There is a worry about being stabbed in the back again (one year verdict from on high when you least expect it). Maybe things have changed. Maybe they haven't. I don't know. It is hard to know when you need to forgive and move on or when you should not forget and you should take steps to protect yourself. Hard to know what is most fitting for the situation. Bob just doesn't seem to get it. His words don't mean terribly much. Partly about my mental block, of course, but it is hard when another persons actions affect you so and they really don't seem to understand the impact that their actions had and it really is unclear how much they are thinking about what they did and other similar things that they do to others... No point trying to explain. Been there and the wheels go round and then things escalate. Inevitably. No point. I don't know. Whatever.
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