Posted by muffled on April 13, 2009, at 10:27:53
In reply to Re: Imposter, posted by muffled on April 13, 2009, at 9:43:48
I been busy, but just read that other thread and stuff and it occurs to me that there has been no blocks super recently? Places where Bob woulda just bam blocked....
So mebbe he trying to NOT block and see what happens?
So far it has been good I think? I haven't time to read all posts, but it seems people be doing OK and apologising on their own?
That they, given the opportunity and support, they can come round?
Maybe its more bout not so much asking another poster to apoplogize, as just supporting them, and comming alonside them in their pain, accepting them, warts and all, and letting them come to their own conclusions re: an apology, or a change in wording etc? Cuz one thing I have noticed, is that given kindness, that often people will rise to the occasion on their own.
You don't have to force or control.
Encouragement and understanding is better .
Maybe I am terribly idealistic. Much of me is. I oddly have this utopian view of the goodness that lies w/in us all.
Cuz I been a real bad person, but I got goodness. And Verne, he can be so rough, but obvo he got goodness.
Its like seeing a dandilion flower grow out of concrete. All the more beautiful for the challenge it has had.
I ramble.
M
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