Posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2008, at 20:24:12
In reply to Re: Lou's request, posted by Dr. Bob on April 3, 2008, at 9:56:17
> > B. In those criteria,if any, could you allow the statement in question, just because the poster writes that they believe it? If so, how does the fact that the member posting the statement in question that they believe it make the statement any less to the recipiant that {feels} put down or accused when they read it?
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> It depends on the statement. "I believe Dr. Bob has gone overboard" could still lead me to feel accused.
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> > C. If a member objects to you that a statement here makes them feel put down or accused, do you have some way to say to them that the statement in question does not make them feel put down or accused, even though the member reporting writes that they feel accused or put down when they read the statement in question?
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> No, of course not.
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> > If you could reply to any of the above, then I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly.
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> Lou, I welcome feedback, but I can get busy sometimes, and don't have a staff to reply for me, so I'm afraid I can't respond to all posts to me. I hope you understand, and please do feel free to continue to add your voice to the discussion here.
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> BobMr. Hsiung,
You wrote,[...feel free to add..to the discussion here..]
The discussion was innitiated by me in requesting clarification. Here is the link to my innitial post in the thread.
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20080313/msgs/821127.html
In regards to your reminder procedure and to just ask you for your rationals and that it is fine to discuss the rules and policy here ans such, In part A of my innitial request, I can not find a reply with the criteria used by you to determine if a statement does or does not lead someone to feel accused or put down.
In part D, I do not see a reply.
In part E, I brought up that there are generally accepted criteria used to determine as to if a statemenet could or could not lead someone to feel accused or put down. I also requested in that part that if a member reports to you that something leads them to feel put down, and you take the position that it does not, by what authority do you use {if the statement contains the generally accepted criteria that constitutes what could lead someone to feel put down}to tell the member that the statement in question does not lead that member to feel put down?
If you could reply to the above , then I couold have the opportunity to respond accordingly.
Lou Pilder
poster:Lou Pilder
thread:821127
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20081003/msgs/859548.html