Posted by Lou Pilder on April 13, 2008, at 16:39:18
In reply to Re: Lou's request, posted by Dr. Bob on April 3, 2008, at 9:56:17
> > B. In those criteria,if any, could you allow the statement in question, just because the poster writes that they believe it? If so, how does the fact that the member posting the statement in question that they believe it make the statement any less to the recipiant that {feels} put down or accused when they read it?
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> It depends on the statement. "I believe Dr. Bob has gone overboard" could still lead me to feel accused.
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> > C. If a member objects to you that a statement here makes them feel put down or accused, do you have some way to say to them that the statement in question does not make them feel put down or accused, even though the member reporting writes that they feel accused or put down when they read the statement in question?
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> No, of course not.
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> > If you could reply to any of the above, then I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly.
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> Lou, I welcome feedback, but I can get busy sometimes, and don't have a staff to reply for me, so I'm afraid I can't respond to all posts to me. I hope you understand, and please do feel free to continue to add your voice to the discussion here.
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> BobMr. Hsiung,
You wrote,[...Lou, I welcome feedback, but...I can't...].
I am unsure as to your TOS here that writes that you are welcomming feedback and that you do what is in your thinking what will be good for the community as a whole and that members trust you in that.
This has to me a want for clarification here because your TOS also states that you take responsibility for what you post here.
There is what you have posted that I am requesating to have dialog with you about and there is a principle called {good faith} that I undertsnad to be an accepted practice when someone writes that they take responsibility for what they post.
I am reminding you in good faith to post here concerning my requests to you as to what you have posted here that IMO could have the potential for some others to think that what you posted is about me. Could you reply to me concerning as to that that you posted as per the principle of good faith which IMO means that since you write that you take responsibility for what you post, then IMO since I want to respond to any reply to me, I would like for the reply to be timely, for each day with out a reply means to me that more people could make conclusions about as to if what you wrote in question is about me or not and I would like that clear that up? If so, then I could have the opportunity to know if my requests are considered by you to be about me and respond so that if there is any specter that could have the potential to cast me in a false lite, I could respond to what you posted here.
Lou
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