Posted by confuzyq_temp on June 14, 2007, at 13:14:23
In reply to Adding to what Dinah said, posted by Racer on June 13, 2007, at 22:45:24
> But I would like to point out that in all of the posts linked to, the individual who took action was the same. I prefer that Dr Bob decide when to take action on this sort of thing, unless and until he makes quite clear where that line lies.
>That is true (and for the sake of my own time-management problems I will try to contain any obsessive-compulsive urge to dig for possible examples of others reprimanding for unflattering bob comments lol).
What I'm hoping is that when he does clarify his stance on complaints regarding himself, he doesn't just stop at listing the technicalities of what is and isn't ok ("I statements" as usual and all that). But that he also puts it into perspective with his recent non-action, despite having been brought fully up to speed even in his absence.
Or that he would even just say "Ooops..." Personally I will have much more faith and trust in someone who can just admit they had a lapse in judgment or for whatever reason even chose to have that lapse in judgment. But that they understand that it caused reasonable upset, and will endeavor to be more consistent in the future. Rather than sweeping it under the rug or trying to claim something made sense that just didn't.
(Now watch "Ooops..." -- three dots included of course -- be all that he does say about it. ;)
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