Posted by confuzyq on June 12, 2007, at 1:16:34
In reply to Again, deign???? Snort! » dispatcher, posted by gardenergirl on June 11, 2007, at 17:34:46
... please, please think some things over, at least for the sake of your clients....
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/relate/20070210/msgs/761685.html
"...One of my biggest biggest issues, maybe even THE biggest is fear of rejection. This involves fear of being judged or criticized or that I've disappointed someone or made them mad or whatever. Any hint of any of that, real or projected, and I equate that somehow with rejection. Then I feel hurt and/or angry. Or I totally freeze and do nothing to avoid the possibility. Not a very adaptive style..."
Please also consider if that fits in with this (statement that I personally believe could be fairly considered a) platitude:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20070605/msgs/762419.html
"...Um, and I believe you meant, "I feel offended when blah blah blah?" Because otherwise, well, that would be as if someone else were causing your feelings of offense, and of course that's impossible, you know."
(This is NOT in any way a complaint about either of the above posts, so did not call for use of the "notify" button instead.)
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URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20070605/msgs/762555.html