Posted by muffled on January 22, 2007, at 22:15:04
In reply to Re: Peeking at Bob, posted by Dr. Bob on January 22, 2007, at 18:56:53
> > i think we like to see a more personal side of you Dr.Bob,i know i would.
> >
> > willyee
>
> > I agree with Willyee that it would be good for Bob to show a bit more of himself
> > I understand that he needs to keep very strong boundaries for safety personally, legally, professionally, physically etc.
> > But mebbe just a few more peeks now and again might be useful.
> >
> > Muffled
>
> I appreciate your interest in me. Maybe it would be nice to be closer? I think I'd like to keep the focus on Babble, though.
>
> Bob**Ah Bob.....I not interested in you other than getting over the fear of your power. Secondarily I was/am concerned as to your motivations for running this site, again, I guess for my safety.
I do not wish to be close to you.
But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
I don't go getting close to noone.
But that was a human thing for you to to say.
The whole point of my post re:Bob WAS Babble!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It was not about Bob the person, so much as Bob the administrator, and how it could be facilitating to the comfort of posters if they could see that the power behind the babble site, was in fact a regular person with feelings and caring etc.
When you don't expose ANY of yourself you come across as an unfeeling and possibly uncaring, and scarey.
Guess its a balancing act or something, I dunno.
But that may just be MY stuff showing?
But I think sadly that there's lotsa people here who have trusting issues.
Muffled
Addenum:
Just re-read post. Actually I DO have some interest in Bob the person, in that you say some odd things (IMHO ONLY of course). And then I start to think, he's human, has weaknessess, and I do care for humans. So I reckon if you are in fact human, I DO care, just like I care bout all babblers, Adminstrator included.
But that is SO all.
Deneb can have you.
There, that seems nicer eh?
poster:muffled
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