Posted by Happyflower on January 21, 2007, at 17:30:07
In reply to Re: helping, posted by Honore on January 21, 2007, at 16:50:30
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> I may also be mistaken, but I believe what was pressuring in the situation with Deneb (I'm sorry, but I think this is the only way to make sense of this discussion) was that Happyflower kept bringing up the threats that Deneb had made, and was unable to let the situation go. Others also responded, to a situation that had been really resolved-- ie it was essentially over.
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Ummmm. I must say that you might be mistaken, or don't have all the information. Happyflower was getting continuiously over a period of over a month getting several (more than 10)comments in Chat, babblemail and in posts, what felt like threats of sucide due to Happyflower remaining "uninvolved" in the situation.(protecting myself by ignoring), but after a month, it got really distessing, so I asking for help with a "do not post to me". Then I got blocked, and couldn't talk about it for 3 weeks, the situation was not satisfactory taken care of in my view and I posted about the
"do not post" violation in admin. and got blocked for it. So if Happyflower's "do not post to me" was inforced,not ignored, and I wasn't continuesly what felt like harrasment to me several times for longer than a month after the "do not post", than Happyflower would have been glad to shut up about it. But it wasn't, so that is why I am leaving because after over 2 months of this, I had enough.
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