Posted by fayeroe on January 20, 2007, at 17:15:00
In reply to Re: something better needs to be done-yes, posted by Deneb on January 20, 2007, at 16:31:08
** Deneb said "I know what I did then was uncivil now. I'll try really really hard never to do that again. Next time I can write about my bad feelings, but I have to make extra sure to not say it was because of what someone did or didn't do. That would fall under the "pressuring others" and accusing others part of the rules." **
deneb, people don't want you to tell them that you will kill yourself if they don't do a certain thing the way you want it done. this world isn't built in a way where we can make demands that are threatening or provocative to others. because "nice matters"......
it appears to me from what you said that you realize that now and i look forward to your moving on and not repeating the patterns that you found yourself in previously. it would bring an awfully lot of peace here on Babble if you could do that. thank you so much, pat
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