Posted by Dr. Bob on December 8, 2006, at 8:45:49
In reply to Re: blocked for 30 weeks - Oh, for God's sake!! » verne, posted by LlurpsieBlossom on December 4, 2006, at 10:26:28
> Sure would be nice if we could either talk these disagreements out
I agree, that would be nice.
> 2) ... the guilt that he/she has sent a peer to block-land.
That should be minimized because:
> The "victim" here [of the offensive behavior] seems to have very little connection to the proceedings of the blocking process.
Though of course they may still *feel* guilty...
> 3) ... A feeling of "survivor's guilt" in which both parties contributed to an uncivil exchange, but only one ended up being punished.
I try, with probably varying degrees of success, to be fair when both parties contribute...
Bob
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