Posted by Dr. Bob on October 25, 2006, at 22:31:48
In reply to » Dr. Bob, posted by Lindenblüte on October 24, 2006, at 21:13:19
> Perhaps this poster has received the warning at some point in psycho-babble history.
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> Babble doesn't feel safe to me, because there is potential that I have forgottent to read something- a warning. I can be blocked at any time. I won't even know what rule I broke. I'm getting really freaked out.I guess not seeing a PBC could be an issue, like not seeing a PDP. But blocks do spell out what the issues are.
> I'm thinking ... more like the little kid who never could figure things out like rules, or fair warning, or? but I tried so damn hard, Dr. Bob. That's why I feel so upset when other people are punished by your hand who are trying so damn hard to be civil.
I'm sorry this is triggering. From an administrative perspective, the issue is whether people follow the rules, not whether, or how hard, they try. But these situations can also elicit a "parent-child attitude", including wishes for love and acceptance:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20060918/msgs/688269.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20060918/msgs/688357.htmlA block is just an administrative response. It doesn't mean I don't like someone or think they're a bad person. Plus there are lots of loving and accepting people here.
Bob
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