Posted by Lindenblüte on September 21, 2006, at 16:58:27 [reposted on September 21, 2006, at 18:38:33 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Can't block me now,.......... so why you here?, posted by muffled on September 21, 2006, at 15:48:00
This seems like a matter that is most appropriate for the Administration board. Since you bring it here, I'll see how... I can work the psychology theme into this post...?
Have you ever gone to see a new T every week? Or worn a different disguise every week that you went to see your T? How do you think it would affect the quality of the interaction? Do you think your experience of therapy would change if you always paid with a check that bounced? Even if you were never caught, do you think it would change the nature of your relationship with T or with your own conscience?
Do you think that support depends on having an established relationship, or can a new relationship (with a scrambled IP address, or a new disguise) provide the quality of support that you think is appropriate for you?
I wonder how transference works in this case. If a person comes in to see T every week in a new disguise, would s/he see a different side of T? If so, would that be because s/he was perceived to be a different person, or because T's style is labile?
Would a disguised poster elicit the reaction that I give a stranger? Do you want that reaction (I think I'm supportive to strangers, but more generic, and more cautious- for example)? If you do want to be a stranger, then why tell us that you've been established here and blocked from here before? If you don't want to be a stranger, then why not participate in your own clothing, or at least change your name from time to time.
Aside from disguise, if you've had enough interference from Bob and his deputies, another option would be to obey their guidelines. Dr. Bob owns and operates this website. I consider it a privilege to be here, not a right. Other options include abstaining from psycho-babble, or owning and operating your own website.
Best of luck to you, and I hope that you get that kind of support which must keep drawing you back to babble despite your difficulty with Dr. Bob and deputy interference.
-Li
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