Re: MANDATORY triggers for child abuse triggers » zazenduck

Posted by Larry Hoover on June 20, 2006, at 16:40:23

In reply to MANDATORY triggers for child abuse triggers, posted by zazenduck on June 20, 2006, at 16:34:37

> because some people just don't get it
>
> it's not okay to hurt children or to post LIGHTHEARTEDLY or any other way about it
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> it needs to be mandatory because some people don't seem able to voluntarily comply
I'm going to gently disagree.
It's not about willingness to comply. It's about grasping the significance of it.
Shaping people towards understanding should be the guiding principle. Not punishing those who can't yet see. Would you punish a dyslexic child for failing to read? A deaf child, for not hearing?
A missed trigger flag is a teaching opportunity. What would you like Dr. Bob to understand, that he apparently failed to grasp? What feeling would you like him to imagine?
Lar

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