Posted by zazenduck on June 4, 2006, at 10:45:34
In reply to Re: How about changing the » alexandra_k, posted by NikkiT2 on June 4, 2006, at 1:32:23
> You *know* it wasn't to hurt you.
Nikki you can't *know* what someone else thinks unless she tells you. I am afraid it might feel a little invalidating to be told soemething like that.
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> Alex, you know, you are just another babbler..I heartily disagree !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alex is one of a kind
>I don't know you enough to even care to try and hurt you over anyone else. I've never received a message of support from you when I have needed it, I've never had much of a "conversation" with you.. so please, don't flatter yourself that I did this as an attempt to hurt you.
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> You know what, I have had babble *up to here* recently. I am fed up of receiving babble mails sayong "oooh, you must be extra nice to xxx because they are low"? Hang on, has anyone but Larry even noticed I am on the verge of losing it through instense, constant pain of a level that isn't livable with? Has anyone other than Larry offered a hug and support, and not just "oh, you should see the level fo pain *I* live with, its much worse than yours" which is all I seem to get from anyone else in my life.I actually thought of saying something like hope you're feeling better but it seems inadequate and you hardly know me either so I decided to stay on topic. I don't do internet hugs but I am sorry you're in pain and hope it gets better.
> No, but those that shout the loudest *always* get all the attention.Nikki will it make you feel attended to if you don't get blocked for 3 weeks? If you are treated as special re penalties for what you noted what against the rules? Because I think there might be other ways to get attention. Shouting louder might be more direct and more effective? I'm just asking not suggesting that's the case and I certainly don't want you blocked. I don't want anybody blocked. The system stinks. It divides the community and causes conflict and pain all around.
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> Nothing ever changesI know How many times has this conversation with Bob been held and his response to requests for change always involve adding more time or more rules or more math. And Alex was so danged patient trying to talk to him for so long. That's what makes this one even a little worse for me.
I'm sorry you're in pain and no one is paying any attention.
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