Posted by Racer on March 1, 2006, at 13:11:00
In reply to Re: San Francisco, posted by 5 on February 27, 2006, at 7:13:14
> Don't you have friends in real life, Dr Bob? Don't people find it strange that he wants to hang out with a bunch of women in the grip of transference? Don't people find that just a little disconcerting?
It's taken me a bit of time to respond to this, giving myself time to settle my jets before I got myself in trouble. I think I'm cooler now.
When I first read this, it felt like a slap in the face. I won't address the question of whether or not I feel transference in any situation, because I do't feel qualified to do so. I will say that I resent someone who knows my situation so much less than I do stating that I am "in the grip of transference."
I also feel as though I'm collateral damage in a situation that has nothing to do with me, and that feels bad, too.
So, the bottom line is that I feel bad after reading something someone else wrote. Someone who, so far as I know, doesn't even know me to make judgements about me. I hope someone came out of this situation feeling good. Otherwise it just seems like we've all lost.
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