Posted by messadivoce on August 28, 2005, at 2:48:09
In reply to Dr. Bob, please delete the posts I made on social, posted by Deneb on August 27, 2005, at 18:25:59
Deneb, I don't think you're an evil person or anything. I think you're sweet, insightful and a valuable member of babble.
But here's the thing....I was offended by your posts as well. I'm not sure why you chose to express yourself like that. Are you looking for attention? Confirmation that people will like you even when you post disturbing material? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm just hoping you'll ask yourself why you do it.
I think when I post, or when you post, or when 10derheart posts, or GG or sleepygirl or DaisyM or Dinah or ANYBODY posts, they should stop and consider:
1. Is this helpful to the community?
2. Does it build it up or tear it down?
3. Does it make light of serious/triggerish subjects, such as death or suicide?
Don't get me wrong. It's okay to post here in anger and frustration and despair. Lord knows I have. But it's all in how you DO it. As a writer, I always STOP and THINK and EDIT before I post my final post (this one has been through 4 revisions). Can I suggest you do such a thing as well, to keep from offending Babble members and avoid a block? I would hate to see that happen. :-(
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