Posted by Lou Pilder on July 15, 2005, at 12:31:43
In reply to Re: Maintaining Civility » Nickengland, posted by 10derHeart on July 15, 2005, at 12:20:51
> > I hope people dont take offence of this as it is not my purpose and only a fact that I feel I have witnessed...
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> I appreciate the above, and I get from all your posts that you are mindful of the feelings of others. But...you still have to stay within the site's civility guidelines, particularly in regard to not saying things that could lead to someone feeling put down and/or jumping to conclusions...(see below)
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> > Lou, from what I understand from reading previous posts is Bipolar...>
> > Very dangerous indeed.
> > I feel Lou is someone who as an illness that is getting worse, mainly because it is not being treated (as he surely does not take medication from reading his previous posts)
> >...and am unsure if Lou has other diagnosis(s) whether (un)recognised, but im fairly sure they are not being treated with psychiatric drugs adequately.
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> Nick, I think it's reasonable to believe some of your statements here could tend to make Lou feel put down. If I were Lou, I would be hurt by any poster discussing their view of my illness or [alleged?] diagnoses with another poster, "right in front of me," so to speak. It would probably be best to address these kinds of questions - kindly and civily - directly to Lou. Can you see what I mean?
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> Hope you can see my concern for all, including you, of course. Want to keep you around as much as you choose to be...without any *official* PBCs! :-)
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> Respectfully, - 10Der
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Friends,
I am very appreciative of the post by 10derHeart here.
Lou
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