Posted by Dr. Bob on July 12, 2005, at 23:41:29
In reply to Re: the next best thing, second try » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on July 12, 2005, at 4:19:10
> > Another key is that that would be traumatic for them?
>
> I'm not sure I'd use the word traumatic. But hurtful certainly. Rejection hurts. Even impersonal rejection.This came up before, too... More polite and less divisive = less rejecting. Knowing what they're getting into = less likely to feel rejected. From your perspective, this is the central issue?
Bob
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