Posted by AuntieMel on May 31, 2005, at 13:59:26
In reply to Re: my two cents, posted by Minnie-Haha on May 31, 2005, at 12:59:51
"Does one have to suffer being ignored and misunderstood before becoming a bona fide member of the group?"
Hopefully not. I wasn't exactly *being* ignored when I started. It just *felt* like I was being ignored.
Why? Not the group's fault. I only tentatively posted at first - and then if someone didn't answer me I would sulk for a while and then - days later - try again. It was totally me being too sensitive. Apparently my social phobia extended to the net.
I have a lot of sympathy (empathy?) for those feeling the same way. I wish I knew how to fix it.
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