Posted by KaraS on April 15, 2005, at 11:22:00
In reply to Re: Yá Know.. Kara Minnie, posted by AuntieMel on April 15, 2005, at 10:52:19
> {Sorry Lou - I'm talking about you again}
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> It has been my observance about the requests that there has never been anything personal about them.
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> Over time I have noticed that they are just what they say they are - requests on a particular bit of wording as to whether they fall under the guidelines.
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> I sincerely do *not* think it is to get someone in trouble - it is merely so that Lou can refine in his mind what makes for civility. In other words, I think all he is doing is parsing the language.
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> Maybe there are a lot of requests, but I've never known them to be argumentative. It's a simple 'is this civil?' and if Dr. Bob says it is then the matter is dropped.
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> I have had some of mine questioned, but (maybe) because I look at them the way it hasn't bothered me.
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> But then again - I've just found out that I am brainwashed. <must toe the line. Dr. Bob is king>
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> grin.
You're absolutely right. I don't think that Lou's posts are meant to hurt anyone... but unfortunately they do. They hurt others because he is focussed on clarification of a point and not on how that request for clarification may make someone else feel.I am sorry for my previous post.
Kara
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