Posted by Dr. Bob on April 11, 2005, at 13:24:02
In reply to Please explain your opinion, posted by used2b on April 10, 2005, at 19:31:10
> > it is all pretense to me.
>
> My statement was an "I statement" solely descriptive of my own perception, and only offered as an explanation of why I don't want to engage in affection that to me feels innappropriate.It can be tricky, how exactly to word I-statements. The FAQ links to an explanation by Dinah:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040112/msgs/320097.html
If you'd rather not engage, just don't reply?
Bob
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