Posted by alexandra_k on March 25, 2005, at 16:01:56
aka giving people the benefit of the doubt
aka innocent until proven guiltyif people are quick to assume the worst
then they tend to evoke the worst in others
in a self-fulfilling prophecy.Not that that excuses peoples annoyed reaction - but that is what tends to happen nevertheless...
Sigh.
Not a lot to be done but to ignore it
Try not to take it personally
Try not to react to itBut people will get annoyed.
It can feel rather demoralising...
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