Posted by fallsfall on February 6, 2005, at 18:58:17
In reply to It probably would mean divorce., posted by Dinah on February 5, 2005, at 14:44:28
Can you ask him under what conditions he would be comfortable? You don't have to tell anyone your real name, or where you live. You can wear sunglasses (or a Halloween mask, for all I care). You don't have to tell anyone what hotel you are staying at. You just show up out of thin air and then disappear again.
I know that you want there to be peace at home, but I think this "conference" is important to you. What is it that he is exactly afraid of? How can you work around those issues and still get to come?
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