Posted by Lou Pilder on November 7, 2004, at 12:53:36
In reply to Re: Lou's request, posted by Dr. Bob on November 5, 2004, at 15:47:23
Dr. Hsiung,
I am requesting the determination in question because I feel that the determination in question has a great need to me, at least, to be made to the entire forum. I feel that some people have expressed already in posts here that if you do not put PBC to the post, then many people here could think that the post is acceptable, and there is no PCB for the two posts by NikkiT2 to me,that I can find, (not the post by NIkkiT2 that was not directed to me spacifically,or the post by NikkiT2 that was directed to me in regards to her to not post to me which she did even though I had requested her not to post to me).
I have reviewed your replies to my requests for you to write a determination for those posts by NikkiT2 to me and I think that they could mean that they are undetermined as to being acceptable or not in relation to the guidlines of the forum. And if I think that they are undertermined by you, then I feel that there is the potential for others to think that those posts in question are also undetermined, or could also think that if you have not put a PBC to those posts that they could think that the posts are acceptable to be written here.
I feel that if I do not see a determination as to one way or the other, then posters here could write similar posts directed at me, for there is the postential that others could also not see a dtermination given by you and think that if they see your absence of a PCB to the post means that it is acceptable, which I would rather not have directed at me for the two posts are causing me much distress because I can not determine if you have determined them to be acceptable or not. The one about [...don't tell me, I was being antisemitic by being upset with my husband because my husband has a jewish great aunt...], if left by you so that I, or others, do not know if you are considering the post to be acceptable or not in relation to the guidlines of the forum, could mean, but not necessarrily, that you endorse the acceptability of people writing posts like that to me. And if you do endorse that others can write a post directed to me like that post, could you clarify how the guidlines of the forum could allow a post like that to be directed at me? Others here think that if you do not put a PBC to the post, that it is acceptable which could cause others to direct those type of posts to me and cause me serious emotional distress. I feel that a mental health forum could have a guidline to make those type of posts unacceptable, if there is no guidline as to the present, but some of the posters here have written that unless you put a PBC toward the post that they think the post could be acceptable. I do not think that the post is acceptable even though others here think that it could be acceptable because you have not put a PBC toward those two posts in question.
The other post, that has in it,[...you are evil...] is equally distresing to me, and there is no PBC to it so others could think on that basis, that the post is acceptable. If the post is acceptable, I feel that others here could direct similar posts to me by using the format of putting in front of the statement,[I would tell you] and the after the statement, [but I won't]. I have not seen a PBC concerning that statement by the poster to me and if it is acceptable here to use that format, then I feel that that there is the potential that some posters could then direct those type of statements to me and possibly feel that they can have acceptability by you to do so, and others that are only reading, but not posting, could have the potential to think that the posts are acceptable.
Lou Pilder
poster:Lou Pilder
thread:412027
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