Posted by Dr. Bob on November 4, 2004, at 9:15:03
In reply to Re: Request for clarification » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on November 4, 2004, at 2:12:02
> Requiring a rephrasing also provides an opportunity for learning that one doesn't get with a PBC, especially if one doesn't really understand what the problem is.
A PBC also provides such an opportunity, it's just an optional one.
> > > We are not allowed to express how we feel.
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> > Not if it could lead others to feel accused or put down.
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> But I don't see how expressing ones feelings should lead to another feeling accused or put down.What if someone said they felt disgusted by something someone else said?
> I guess that I am just going to keep searching for a pattern...
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> And trust there is a method...
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> And keep doing my best. Thats all we can do.Thanks, that's all I can ask. :-)
Bob
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