Posted by Lou Pilder on October 28, 2004, at 8:41:36
Dr. Hsiung,
I am requesting that you make a determination as to the acceptability or not of the following in relation to the guidlines of the forum.
The poster writes, "It seems to me that Lou will request anyone who does not say what he wants to hear to know post to him." I feel accused and put down when I read that, for my requests to others to not post to me are based on what I consider to be harassment toward me, not because anyone does not say what I want to hear.
and,
"I'm sorry he has hurt you like this."
In the above statement, something like,[...I feel sorry that you are hurt...] is not the same as "I'm sorry he has hurt you like this." I am requesting that you make a determination as to if it is acceptable for the part, [...he has hurt you..] to be written in its context here. I feel accused and put down when I read this for it is not my intention to hurt anyone here.
Lou Pilder
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041027/msgs/408272.html
poster:Lou Pilder
thread:408290
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041027/msgs/408290.html