Posted by alesta on August 31, 2004, at 5:24:05 [reposted on August 31, 2004, at 7:34:25 | original URL]
In reply to Re: To be fair to you - flmm, posted by KaraS on August 31, 2004, at 0:01:02
kara, thank you!! i couldn't agree more with what you said! well done! you've summed up what i wanted to add. i am so glad that you made it clear how vicious flmm's response was...i wanted to make it clear to everyone that i in *no* way support flmm's views...i genuinely like chemist and find him knowledgeable and intelligent and nice (to me) and i hope if chemist is reading this he knows that...i just feel that personal attacks on others cloud the issues and do nothing to prove your point (and are harmful). flmm was looking for a fight here, practically, and if chemist had just stuck to the issues, he would have come through this in spades...i'm just trying to encourage more effective interaction...but i absolutely detest flmm's hostility and it makes me very angry...i suppose i'm trying to prevent this type of thing from happening in the future, because it *really* upsets me...chemist, i hope you know that...i definitely, in the future, am staying completely out of all arguments. this is just too much stress.
amy
poster:alesta
thread:384533
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