Posted by Dr. Bob on March 7, 2004, at 20:09:38
In reply to Civility, posted by Fallen4myT on March 6, 2004, at 12:50:51
> I am confused. I posted what is MY experience with my therapist
Sorry, it sure can get confusing here sometimes. The idea is not to post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down -- even if you're quoting someone else:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Even though that was your experience with your therapist, it could've led Apperceptor to feel accused or put down, so I considered it uncivil.
Regarding I-statements, see Dinah's post:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040112/msgs/320097.html
In short, as an example, turning "Dr. Bob has gone overboard" into "I feel Dr. Bob has gone overboard" doesn't make it into a real I-statement.
Does that makes more sense?
Bob
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