Posted by Lou Pilder on April 14, 2003, at 16:13:11
In reply to Re: Lou's response to NikkiT2's post-HRF » Lou Pilder, posted by NikkiT2 on April 14, 2003, at 15:36:22
NikkiT2,
You wrote, "To me, the number of messages generated to get clarification feels like harrassment."
Each of my posts to you addresses one spacific part of your post to me, and there were many, many accusations and conclusions that I feel were false that you made about me that I felt hurt about that I wanted to have the opportunity to respond to, and the whole is equal to the sum of its parts. Are you saying that there is a quota to the parts of your post that I can respond to and not have the opportunity to respond to all of your post to me? If so, I feel that would be terribly unfair, for then I could be limited in my response to you so that not all of the parts could be responded to and could leave what I feel are accusations toward me unanswered. I feel that when a poster directs either statements that I feel are accusatory or defamatory to me, that it would be better for me to answere those statements than to leave them unanswered, and if there are many by the same poster, then there could be many replys from me and I do not consider that harassment, but just defending myself aginst what I feel is defamation directed at me. I forgive those that write defaminfg posts about me, but I also feel that I have an obligation to let posters that make satements that I feel are defaming to me be aware of the hurt that those statements could cause, and address them accordingly.
You wrote that you are sorry for leaving. I am sorry that you are leaving also. perhaps we could continue this discussion in the future, for I have not ever, and will not ever, and could not ever, tell someone not to post to me.
Lou
poster:Lou Pilder
thread:213864
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20030404/msgs/219291.html