Posted by wendy b. on April 8, 2003, at 14:50:25
In reply to Re: maybe..., posted by Dr. Bob on April 8, 2003, at 13:53:00
> > I wonder if you could comment about the appropriateness, though, of bringing the message from 2001 over to Admin.
>
> I think it was OK, since there was a civility issue...
Yes, but the 2nd civility issue (my issue) was the civility of moving it in the first place... Ohhh, well. You don't see it.
> > I thought that what she did was very unkind.
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> Could you make that into an "I-statement"? How did it make you feel?I felt it was wrong?
No. Emmmm, errr.
I felt that I was being unfairly judged, and that presumptions about my intent were being aired, and that it was out of context.
> > Further, she did not get a warning to be cognizant of MY feelings about moving the message (although I expressed why I thought it should have remained there), in the way I was warned about hers.
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> Your feelings are important, too.Thanks...
>But there's no general rule about moving messages. Would you like this redirected back to 2001?
>
> Bob
No, it's ok, I can start another if I feel the need to, though I probably won't... The thread has already gone on too long, for me.Wendy
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