Posted by ayuda on March 25, 2003, at 18:44:43
In reply to Lou's reply to yahuda's post-G3 » ayuda, posted by Lou Pilder on March 25, 2003, at 18:29:35
> ayuda,
> 3. I am not in any type of verbal assult with anyone. I am sorry if you feel that way.
> I hope the you will consider that my requests for clarification can be benifitial to not only me in order to reply accordingly, but also to the poster so that they can [rule out] possible misunderstandings that I may percieve in their post.
> LouLou, since I do have lots of better things to do, this will be my last response to you, and the last time I read Admin, because I would rather be discussing my medications and side-effects with people who are using Psycho-Babble to be helpful and not to play verbal cat and mouse games.
No, actually, I consider your "requests for clarification" to be unwarranted (as in the case of pointing out Nikki's typos), confrontational, lacking in any significance whatsoever to the original conversations, and just plain annoying. I am not so stupid or naive as to believe that just because someone puts "this will help me understand you better" that their otherwise smart-alek or insulting comments are harmless. And you can leave off the patronizing remarks, "I feel sorry for you," because those are the most insulting. I'm sure that you are being genuine, but just because you are being genuine does not mean that you are being kind, helpful, or harmless, as can be seen in other people's responses to you.
And sorry that you don't have the time to re-read what you have written, but I don't have time to be your research assistant.
Bye.
poster:ayuda
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