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Re: 2 cents » Dr. Bob

Posted by Zo on June 6, 2002, at 2:01:55

In reply to Re: 2 cents, posted by Dr. Bob on June 3, 2002, at 13:42:41

Wasn't there a thread a short while back where a lot of feelings got hurt. . .where one of your famous-Bob-zen-phrases was taken the wrong way?

And in the end, you made it clear to us that the intention behind your words was warm, helpful, humorous. . .

I'm thinking this is happening again.

Before I was part of that rich exhange, where I felt I got to know you a little better, your responses made me very nervous. I couldn't tell, were you a nice guy?

Maybe someone not on that thread would still be nervous. Maybe women even moreso.

Men who have trouble expressing their feelings can resort to short and pointed questions. . that would read, on paper, exactly like your posts. Anyone brushing someone off, brushing off emotional truth.

I remember on that thread, you asked that we trust you more. I thought I would give you more of an idea of what you're asking.

There's probably a way to let women on the board know right off the bat. . .you're a safe guy.

Just some thoughts,
Zo


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