Posted by Noa on July 27, 2001, at 9:44:12
In reply to Re: blocked for one week..Jeezzzzz » Noa , posted by Willow on July 26, 2001, at 11:30:24
Willow, for me, accepting Cam with any "trait" (I see this more as a behavior than a trait, actually) isn't a problem. I accept Cam. I may be stepping over boundaries here (and Cam, I apologise if I am), but to me, when Cam lets himself get pulled into the nonsense from the instigators, I don't think it is good for Cam, given what he has been through. Having a limit set sometimes is helpful to the person themselves.
As for blocking instigators, absolutely, I would love to see that happen, but as Dr. Bob said earlier in this thread, sometimes it is hard because instigators can be tenacious and know how to skirt the system, by changing identities frequently, by coming up to but not actually crossing the line of incivility, etc. Again, I feel the best course of action is to ignore them. What they want is reaction, so why give it to them?
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