Posted by Kristi on May 19, 2001, at 3:37:31
In reply to Re: Redirect: -second chances:DR BOB, posted by JahL on May 18, 2001, at 19:08:55
There is just something about you. I really enjoy your posts. :-) :-)
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> > > I completely miss read one of JahL's posts, in doing so it caused my heart to go out to him and I felt compelled to reply.
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> I'm not sure you did mis-read my first post. You did, however, completely mis-read my reply to you. This was yr crime (?)
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> > > I told JahL that I completely miss read the tone of his post and that I didn't know being suicidal excluded "preparing to commit suicide" In return I was called sarcastic and accused of calling someone a liar, which I never did.
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> Right, I've been wearing my 'forgiveness' hat but maybe it's time to take it off...
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> Saying "I won't believe you if you say you're suicidal" (& especially on this board!) implies I am 'crying wolf', which cld be considered a form of manipulative lying.
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> > > In my emotional state, I felt like I had been suckered in for an attack,
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> Right so my original post, addressed to Elizabeth, was posted with the express intention of 'suckering' you in? What did you say about getting a grip?
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> It was me that was suckered in by Ann's disingenous (going by the tone of the 2nd post) show of concern, compelling me to probably reveal more than I wld've liked.
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> > > and I was really undone by JahL's responses.
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> In fairness to myself I did relay my propensity to 'dismantle' slights upon my character (be they from psychologists or otherwise). You shld expect no better when you question someone's sincerity, with so little to back your argument up. It's the way I'm made. I don't take (unjustified) sh*t from anyone. All I can do is *try* to be civil about it.
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> > >I was upset
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> My intention was to dismantle yr argument, not to cause personal offence.
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> > > and felt like my words were twisted
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> Not twisted, just used against you.
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> > > I think it is amusing, at best, that my behavior on this board is what Dr. Bob considers uncivil and unacceptable.
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> Maybe in this instance it wasn't how you expressed y'self (the usual reason 4 warnings), but *what* you said. I dunno.
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> Maybe you should've left things with the preceding post ("sorry")
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> > > I need to rely on you to respect my request and delete my posts from Psycho-Babble.
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> Dr B: if you submit to Ann's request could you also please remove my 1st reply to Ann (definitely not the one to Elizabeth), & the 2nd one if you like.. I'm faintly embarrassed to have opened up (not my style), only to be cut down. 'Suckered-in' if you like. ;0)
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> Thanks,
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poster:Kristi
thread:1251
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