Posted by shar on February 9, 2001, at 13:11:31
In reply to Re: Do you guys think that Dr. Bob's article triggered » shar, posted by Rzip on February 7, 2001, at 3:10:13
Rzip:
You are very good at distancing yourself from "you guys." When I asked you how YOU felt about the things you asked, your response included little of your feelings, and you still talked about "people" and what they might have experienced.So, I have paraphrased the questions you asked of "you guys" and think it would be interesting if you answered them. Are you game?
1. Rzip, do you think that Dr. Bob's article somehow triggered the recent partings of some of the posters?
2. Rzip, if posters were triggered to leave because of the article, how and why do you believe this occurred?
3. Rzip, does the fact that Dr. Bob wrote an article and published it somehow make you feel uncomfortable?4. Rzip, do you feel there is a general air of discomfort in response to the article?
I am genuinely interested in your responses because you do have a tendency (IMO) to take an "us" and "them" stance toward the board. Almost as an evaluator of some sort, or a contributing professional. That results in "you guys" (other posters) not getting to know you very well. That is, getting to know how you feel about things, what is going on in your life, what you need to talk about to feel better, etc.
Of course, if your goal is to evaluate the board instead of partaking in it, or to offer professional analyses or questions in response to things that happen, then you can ignore the questions I asked above.
5. Rzip, is your goal to be more of a contributor or evaluator, vs. a participant in Psycho-Babble?
I encourage you not to leave the board in response to this message or personalize it too much. It is not a criticism, only an observation that could be TOTALLY WRONG, and an effort for me to learn about the real you and your goals.
Shar
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