Posted by Rach on January 23, 2001, at 1:50:37
In reply to Re: The worst of Both Worlds., posted by name on January 22, 2001, at 15:40:47
I also recall the vesper post, and the replies he recieved.
I think you, name, are too harsh about this forum. You said so yourself - people find enjoyment, share pain, gain friends and aid each other's recovery through this site. How can that not be a good thing?
You also talk about pollyannic sympathy, unchallenged facts, and a controlling spouse boosting support for themselves via this forum. Basically, if this person wants to find support, they will find it. Whether it is from friends, on the internet, or in a some other form. There are unfortunately always going to be people who abuse the system. But that is no reason to question the system that is in place. And as far as challenging facts go - what good would that do? You're not going to catch someone in a lie becasue they can always go back and check what they said. If you challenge someone who is telling the truth, then it can be severely damaging to that person.
This place isn't without its flaws, I know. But you certainly are harsh with your belief (or lack thereof) in this system.
This place has improved people's lives. And I know of no instance when it has done the opposite. Where is the harm?
poster:Rach
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