Posted by bleauberry on June 26, 2008, at 17:21:47
In reply to Re: Celexa and MJ - do they cancel out?, posted by worriedgf on June 25, 2008, at 23:39:41
> > I was a chronic smoker for many years, even while on various psychiatric meds. I felt MJ was a better antidepressant than the drugs.
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> SEE I HAD READ THAT IT IS A NATURAL DEPRESSANT...WHAT EXACTLY IS IT lol.Intermittent usage over the longterm might be ok based on watching friends for a lifetime who did that. It's the daily smokers who run into real problems later down the road. It negatively impacts family, fatherhood, husbandhood, employment, savings, physical health, and mental health.
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> When I decided to quit, I weaned off it very slowly and methodically, just like a med, over a 3 month period.
> > WHAT MADE YOU DECIDE TO QUIT?I was negatively impacted in all the ways stated above.
In addition, I got away with a lot for longer than normal. I was getting paranoid my good luck was about to run out. Sellers are at high risk of being watched and busted. I had been a customer for too long. Growers are at high risk due to the impossibility even with high-tech to hide the odor of MJ, and infrared cameras that can see the heat pattern of growlights right through walls and roofs, and authorities who monitor unusual electricity usage. In short, I made a choice to withdraw under my own terms rather than someone else's.
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> HE GETS HIS MJ FOR FREE...I GUESS LUCKY HIM! (ugh lol) SO YEA, THAT'S NOT SOMETHING I COULD USE AS AN EXCUSE, APPARENTLY HE GETS IT FOR FREE FROM A FRIEND, BUT I DON'T KNOW WHICH FRIEND.Nobody gets MJ for free. He's not telling the truth. Either he is buying it and not wanting you to know he is spending money, or he is involved with growing it somewhere. Maybe if he smokes only a tiny bit once in a while he could be getting that small quantity from a friend or someone who owes him money or something. That kind of situation is short-lived, and eventually growing or buying is inevitable.
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>> > I KNOW HE DOESN'T GROW HIS OWN...AT LEAST NOT AT HIS HOUSE.....HMMMMM
Believe me, growers are superbly creative in hiding their activities. For a while anyway. We're all human, and eventually someone slips up just a tiny bit.
> STAY IN THAT PLACE. I DESERVE TO BE ABOVE THOSE KINDS OF THINGS...BELOW FAMILY I CAN UNDERSTAND, BUT NOT BELOW DRUGS FOR SURE!
As a girlfriend, yeah. As a future wife, you are number one over everything and anyone, including your own kids. Not sure where you stand with the Bible, but according to God, only He is higher than the wife.
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> THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR POST :)So welcome! Hey, maybe it's just a passing chapter in his book and will all resolve smoothly. Definitely keep a very close suspicious eye on it and don't be afraid to ask tough questions, probing questions, make demands, or give lectures. If there is to be more growth in your relationship, its foundation is based on honesty. Without that, it is built on mud.
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