Posted by UgottaHaveHope on May 5, 2007, at 6:29:06
In reply to Re: No one should have PROBLEMS with 'Love whomeve, posted by malcolm64 on May 5, 2007, at 1:53:11
Malcolm: Jan always FORGIVES and I hope YOU find it in your heart to FORGIVE her. Like I said, I agreed with 90-percent of your post. Bless her heart, she will post things (I'm guilty, too, I'm sure) without really thinking things out. And sometimes it can have a negative impact, but again she means well and I think anyone can easily tell that by her overall contributions to the board.
(This has nothing to do with Jan, but) I agree with you on this one, too, about people going off in tangents, which totally changes the direction of a good post. However, that happens in nearly every post in here unfortunately. When it occurs to something I want to discuss, I do my best to bring everything back to topic. Or just start a new thread about it at the bottom (which usually works best).
One of past topics went from me wanting to know Nardil info to something about homosexuals, which set off about 20 straight posts about the latter. So I just started anew at the bottom.
Grammar? LOL, old buddy that's a lost cause in here and everywhere. But I feel you on dat esp when peeps write n net talk (blah).
FINALLY, there is no conflict and never will be. If somebody says something mean to me (and you didnt to me nor Jan), then as hard as it is, I just ignore it. Let's face it: People come to this board bec they likely are dealing with emotional issues. And when they are here, they likely are feeling well and searching for help. Probably in a desperate AND bad mood.
Anyways, I just ignore it. I mean, no disrespect, but I don't know a single person in here personally nor will they be getting any Christmas cards from me. It's just a message board on a electronic screen in my bedroom, nothing more and nothing less. But I am thankful for it because I have learned a lot in here.
Gosh, this Nardil has made me a chatterbox (there I go, blaming meds on regular human behavior, which is one of my pet peeves in here, sorry). I'll shut up with this: Malcolm, I think may will agree it's great to have you in here, you are a valuable contributor and I hope you keep posting.
Prayers, peace, love, namaste, hasta lavista and aloha, Michael
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