Posted by notfred on April 8, 2007, at 0:52:17
In reply to Re: Seems like it's always...))notfred/slpygrl, posted by University on April 7, 2007, at 22:05:29
I think that a dead relationship can also trigger your depression. If you stay in a relationship that is not working for you I think it is a given that this is not healthy. Leaving might trigger a depression but long term I think you will do better. It sounds like to me you are willing to suffer long term in this relationship, fearing what **might** happen if you leave. Staying will suck. Leaving might suck short term. Your choice. Both mean pain, if you really do not think this relationship will ever work for you it seems the choice is clear.
To me this all screams that you need some therapy to learn some better coping skills, figure out what to do next and help you clarify you feelings about this relationship.
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