Posted by Non Heroe on December 18, 2006, at 7:59:22
In reply to Re: My Wife-To-Be and Me » Non Heroe, posted by yxibow on December 18, 2006, at 1:13:45
The psychodynamics of caring for and loving a person with a serious biochemical disorder also has to be acknowledged...But it is important to remember that no matter how much you love someone, it will be exhausting if you have to be their caretaker as well. Every couple of course depends on each other, I wouldn't deny that.
I think though that MFC counseling between the two of you and a third party therapist is...important...I acknowledge your important points, and you are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. I DO see the both of us engaging in MFC counseling at some point. And, very importantly: it can be VERY difficult, and at times, "exhausting" caring for a loved one, be that person a wife, a husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, son, daughter, etctera.
Believe me, I already know it. I knew it in respect to my father and I know it in respect to my fiance.
Thank you.
poster:Non Heroe
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