Posted by crazy71 on August 25, 2006, at 21:37:53
In reply to Re: passive-aggressive behaviour » crazy71, posted by curtm on August 23, 2006, at 9:23:53
At this point he is sure it is me and that there is nothing wrong with him. I mentioned getting counseling for myself, (with the thought that I could get help for him by me going and use techniques I learn on him), but he told me that if I go, I can pack up my things, go to therapy and then find a place to live when I'm done because I won't be welcome back to our home. My other concern is for the 3 children we have. I don't want them growing up thinking that this sort of behaviour is o.k. I have talked to them and mentioned that dad gets "stressed" and sometimes can't handle all of the pressure. They seen to take that for an answer when they see him "flip out". I'm glad for your insight and advice. It helps to know that there is someone out there who understands. Thumbs up to you for realizing that you have moments and you are trying to ease them.
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