Posted by pulse on June 20, 2006, at 17:48:14
In reply to Re: Narcissist Repents » pulse, posted by Declan on June 20, 2006, at 14:33:34
Declan, you're most welcome.
< you never know here who you are speaking to >
yep, i've surely found that one out. i just ignore them, once i'm onto them. btw, that CAN be learned, then fairly quickly and easily done.
they always let slip or otherwise give their true agenda/s away. it can even be in the guise of kindness, when it's really ALL about control.
we're only narcissicts when what we're putting forth about ourselves is a self-aggrandizing exaggeration, if not an outright lie.
if what we say about ourselves is, instead, true, then we're just comfortable (enough) in or own skin, even if slightly neurotic!, with a decent amount of self-esteem and healthy self-interest - in contrast to the npd's extreme selfishness and complete self-absorbtion.
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