Posted by Stepho+ on June 3, 2006, at 1:16:08
In reply to Re: Effexor xr and pregnancy, posted by Jess2906 on February 2, 2006, at 22:49:10
I have had the same struggle. I have often thought I would like to get off the Effexor because I know how horrible it is to have to go off of it suddenly. In my 3rd pregnancy I was told to abrubtly stop taking my Effexor XR. As soon as I did I became extremely ill and anxious. I described it as how one would feel if they were in a plane and were told that we were going down. Extreme panic all day long. As the pregnancy continued the anxiety diminished gradually. But there were a good 4 or 5 months of having a 10+ hour panic attack dail. I would see someone in a wheelchair and would grieve for them and intensely fear that I would end up in a wheel chair. I worried for the baby and for my other kids. Honestly there were many days where if I didn't have my other kids, I would likely have taken my life. Especially during the first weeks of the panic. Unless someone has experienced this extreme disorder, they can't understand. I have been depressed and could handle a pregnancy in that state. I just found out a few days ago that I am expecting my 4th child. This is a complete surprise. I thought I was done and this is a major adjustment for us. This time I have decided with my dr. to coninue my meds. I couldn't do it again. Yes, I am concerned that something could go wrong. But I know that the panic I felt before wouldn't be any better for my baby than the meds and I still have a family to care for. This is a decision that we are making that we believe is best for all of us! I know how difficult it is and I am so sorry you are going through this. Hang on to the hope that this will pass. I would also sit outside everyday and take in the sun and read my Bible. I grew so much during that time. I wouldn't trade it for the world but I would want to do it again. I feel pretty good about this choice and will have to continue to put my trust in the Lord to get me through the times when I doubt myself. He is in control and will take care of my baby and me. "My baby", I am still trying to get used to the idea. Wow. Well hang in there. It isn't forever and I needed to know that. Whatever you decide, be confident with it. You are the one who cares most about your child. Don't let what others say frighten you. You will make it!
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